Is it fair to state that Islamic Extremists bomb suicides, are Conspiracy's to commit "martyr"? It is murder!

What else was 9/11 but a Conspiracy to commit murder, thusly becoming (in what they were taught)Matyred. There was an interesting story the other day on CNN about these extremists and there families holding them in high regard because of their suicides done in the name of Islam. The Jihad. Are these families and friends then also guilty of committing crimes? If they will hold this cowardly act as being GREATNESS in the eyes of God, then shouldn't those that support them also be held for conspiracy?